We can lose heart in praying when we don't see particular outcomes.
Consider using prayer as a way to connect with someone or something, in a way that doesn't require a particular outcome.
Instead of telling God what we want done, and how to do it, let's listen to Jesus.
Here are some questions you can ask that might give you a sense of connection with a situation or person that demands just can't create.
Jesus, please show me how you see this person or situation?
And show me where you are with this person or in this situation.
Jesus, how much do you love this person?
And how do you feel about this situation>
Jesus can you show me where I am in this picture?
Jesus, please show me how near you are to me.
Now as you continue to pray for this person/situation, consider using the imagery that was formed by asking these questions, to watch what Jesus is doing, instead of telling him what to do.
Prayer activity:
Consider drawing, or writing a name or word, that simply connects you to Jesus and this person you are praying for, that came out of these questions. Carry it with you.